A loving tribute:

Barney - My Cat

Chapter 3 - Dearborn

1983 - 1987

Chapters in Barney's Life with Us

Intro

Introduction Page

New

Denver: Stranger on Our Doorstep

1981

Denver: Fun Times Together

1983

Dearborn: Adventure in Moving

1987

Dearborn: The Baby Arrives

1992

Utah: Early Retirement / Figment Arrives

1995

The final Chapter

Working
On It

How long can he keep that up?

Our move to Michigan from Denver had two steps, first from Denver to Grand Rapids for six months, then onto Detroit where we stayed for eight full years. Barney drove with us from Denver to Detroit in our first trip (in the family car) and he stayed with my parents for about three weeks while we flew back to Denver, closed on the house, loaded a Rental truck then drove our possessions on the same west to east route.

Barney did not like going for rides in the car. On trips to the vet, he would meow constantly while the car was in motion both ways. I had experimented with taking him for a couple spins around during our various day trips, but he was always vocal about his disagreement.

As we put him in the car in Denver for our long two day first trip to Detroit, he began to meow. He meowed in a steady stream, with a short cry for a second every two or three seconds. Much like the Bart Simpson routine saying "Hey ... Hey ... Hey ...". If you cannot relax, it would quickly get on your nerves.

On the way out of the Denver city area, he continued the rhythmic cry, changing intensity and pitch. Often the meow would be two-toned some high-low, others low-high, but they were always short followed by a brief pause. To pass the time, I began to echo his cry in the pause between them, but this did not slow him down. We asked each other the rhetorical question "How long can he keep that up?" Little did we expect.

The vet had provided us a mild tranquilizer for Barney, when we explained his dislike for travel and the two long days required to transit the 1300 miles, and we stopped to give him a dose. I should add that the back seat was empty, except for his home food and water bowls on one floor, and his familiar litter bin on the other, and his favorite pillows, blankets and foam cat house on the bench seats. Anything we needed was in the trunk. The tranquilizer took affect in that we curled up in a ball and kept his eyes almost closed. The medication had the affect of relaxing his inner eyelid so it semi-closed and he peered up groggily at us all the while continuing his complaining cry.

He cried a pulse every three seconds continuously every second that the car was in motion across eastern Colorado, all of Nebraska and western Iowa where we spent the night. We stayed at a motel that allowed pets and moved him in and went out for a peaceful dinner. The silence was deafening. We all slept well.

In the morning he immediately began with "meow ... meow ... meow ..." and continued across all of Iowa and Illinois and the small corner of north west Indiana. As we crossed the Michigan boarder long after summer sunset had occurred, exhaustion and the second sedative was taking its toll on poor Barney as his voice actually became raspy and withered but the pace and cycle never dulled. Every three seconds, all the way to my parents driveway, "mehow ... mehow ... mehow ...". How long? All the way across America.

Dad's Taxi

We returned to Denver, drove our belongings in truck to Michigan, dropping some off at the apartment and the rest at my parents. We returned to Grand Rapids in the sedan packed to the rafters with stuff. Barney stayed behind for an extra week. My parents then drove him to Grand Rapids, also to visit us and see our place, and upon arrive told the unbelievable of his behavior. Not only did he cry every three seconds the entire trip, but he had made himself a nervous wreck pacing about the interior of the car trying to find a place to sit and relax. The only place that seemed to offer solitude was on the top of my dad's chairback, scrunched between the headrest, the doorpost, and my dad's head. After moving him out two or three times, and having a huge ritual of trying a dozen places about the car's interior, dad decided it was easier to let him sit there and drove the last 30 miles to Grand Rapids with his neck hunched forward to make room for the obviously agitated Barney. Lyn and I only shared glances upon hearing the story.

Apartment Life

We lived in Grand Rapids for six months, while I helped to develop a new software package. Lyn and I and Barney lived in a small apartment with a definate "no pets" policy (not the last time we "bent" that rule). The apartment was on the ground floor and directly faced the parking lot (no wonder it was available on short notice) so all tenets for three buildings passed directly by our windows. We kept the blinds drawn, day and night, and Barney pacified himself looking outside through the slats.

Our patio window faced a small greenbelt between our complex and a neighboring one. After winter snow started to fall, we learned that racoons and rabits lived in the small wooded area and came out at night foraging for food. The tell-tale footprints explained Barney's intent focus on those blinds all night long. He never woke us with crying or chasing, but he stood sentry each and every night we lived in Grand Rapids.

A Vet that new his Stuff

We found a new vet nearby, and Barney's stomache problems had continued to get regularly worse. We was vomiting and passing blood at least every two or three days, and no variety of food seemed to sit well for him. We tried a vet, picking him only because he was close, and found a goldmine. Dr <?> obviously loved animals, and was well read, conscientsious, and empathetic to Barney's digestive woes. He quickly diagnosed Barney's "gravel" in the bladder and switched us to Science diet low ash formula (for older cats) which Barney dined on for the rest of his life. But he also detected a stomache ulcer. Not an actual hole, but the feline equivilent of GERD that both Lyn and Jesse have to this day. Dr <?> provided us a liquid and a oral syring and every few days for a while, and eventually only as needed, we provided Barney a few tablespoons of the helpful liquid. Within a month, between the diet and the medicine, Barney's stomache problems were only a memory. Of course he was always alergic to cow's milk (though he would beg for it from everybody), and always seemed to be easily quesey, but he soon was a general picture of overall health. We kept a bottle of the magic elixer in the cupboard right until his very last days.

Our new home

After six months, we bought a house in Dearborn, and relocated Barney one last time. I borrowed a small station wagon from work and transported him in the back, so he seemed ok about it. The new house was wonderful with a basement and an upstairs. Barneys litter was in the basement and his blankets were upstairs on the guest bed. If you could not find him, you need only call at the stairway and we would come trotting down the gold carpeted stairs.

The house had a back room addition with large windows on the three sides, each with an oversized eight inch wide window sill and views directly into nearby trees and bushes. Our house was surrounded by flocks of birds, pairs of pigeons, and entire families of squirrels playing and running to and fro across the yard. Barney sat in the sun and took it all in, call out whenever an animal came too close to the house. "Aht ... aht ... aht ..." was the familiar defensive chirp he would make when a bird or sqirrel came to close. We spent untold hours in that backroom.

A good Life

We lived in Dearborn for three full years before Jesse was born, and these were truely golden years for Barney. He was now comfortable in his lifestyle, enjoying all the windows and all the rooms of our small bungalow. We would leave the windows open for weeks at a time during Spring and Fall, and he would sit upon the sill, sniffing the fresh air and keeping track of the numerous bluejays and squirrels. We would leave peanuts out and the squirrels and bluejays would fight over them, in a wonderful ritual full of louds caws and darting to and fro. From our care, the squirrels quickly multiplied. We were informed by our neighbor, one not found of the small animals, that the two squirrels that had been about for years suddenly had a full litter and our peanuts were now supplying nourishment for five squirrel pups. It was a delight for us and Barney to watch the small creatures learn and grow, eventually going off on their own. Starting our second year, our backyard housed four active noisy playful squirrels, and Barney kept a close watch on all of their antics.

Let the sun shine in

Barney followed the sun from room to room, enjoying the natural warmth on his rich black fur. In winter, the sun dipped below the awning and drenched the backroom in beautiful light for most of the day. In summer, the longer arc would cast morning light in the front room through the front and drive side windows. Barney would be up before us, waiting for us to open the curtains so he could lay in the sun, getting up only as the light moved lazily arcross the floor. These were wonderful times for Barney and for us.

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Halloween 1985

Halloween 1985




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