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September 11, 2001

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The Tragedy of September 11th effected everybody, and we shall each have our own stories of where we were and how we were affected. Here is mine.

I was in Phoenix, Arizona that Tuesday, delivering a very very difficult class. It had been proposed for June, and delayed to August, then finally to the week after Labor Day. It had required an incredible amount of preparation, actually creating unique material, something I don't do much anymore.

Monday went poorly, with students coming and going. I draw my energy from my students, and find their attention and questions invigorating. It is always difficult for me when they are called off or don't come back from lunch or break, as I fall into doldrums.

My plane tickets were weird, and an angel must have been on my shoulder. I always travel back at night, after the final class day. Class was due to end on Thursday, but I could get no flights out of Phoenix. The only "red-eye" was to fly to LA, then back to Florida to arrive at 8am. Lyn and I decided to simply have me bunk over Thursday night, and take a 6am flight out Friday. I have done this less than 5 times in the six years I have been at this job.

Tuesday morning I was asleep, listening to my radio on headphones. The announcer woke me up, literally shouting "Get Up! Get out of bed! Go turn on your TV Set! A plane has hit the Trade Center!" He knew many of his listeners, like me, would be in bed listening on a clock radio or walkman. I was in Pacific Time, so this occurred at 6:15 am. I was watching the live NY feed, talking to Lyn, as the second plane arrived. Like millions of others, I saw it on the Today show feed. I sat mesmerized, on the bed, in my pajamas, for the next two hours. The pentagon, the plane in Pennsylvania, the President in nearby Sarasota and then off on Air Force One.

I arrived at the client around 8:50 for a 9:00 start, and we were all zombies. We talked about people we knew that lived in NYC, and if they were affected. We kept CNN.com up on one screen stopping in from time to time for all to read.  An internal e-mail came out that my company had several consultant on-sites in the WTC, eventually, we learned that a fellow employee had been on the Pennsylvania flight, and had actually lead the now notorious charge. Two nights later, I watched as our ex-department administrator, retired to raise his children, talked to Larry King about her husband, after being singled out by President Bush for praise and condolences.

He was an ordinary guy, working for the same company, but he was a hero that saved many innocent lives. That is what is meant by "doing the right thing". Heros are just ordinary men, that find themselves in a heroic situation. I hope that I might honor his memory and my country by doing the same in my hour of being called.

You may remember that the airports were shut down with NO flights for Tuesday and Wednesday, stranding people in cities they just happened to be flying over at the fateful hour. On Thursday, they opened airports to continue the interrupted flights and to rearrange aircraft.  Sure enough, Friday morning was the first day that  new flights were allowed to depart. And I was ticketed on a 6am departure!

I arrived early, and waded through a HUGE line at PHX, then waited again at the gate. The pilot came on with a memorable announcement. "Ladies and Gentlemen, we are having a technical problem with the aircraft. We have a warning light that the mechanics need to review and resolve". We all moaned and looked about. Then he continued. "However, due to the events of recent days, we happen to have a couple extra aircraft handy, so if you wouldn't mind, an exact copy of this exact plane is two gates down. If you will take your stuff with you and sit in the same seats, we will move the luggage and meet you there" It was just a small joke and a small smile, but I continue to find that travelers as a group are making the effort to see the lighter side of travel.

Unfortunately, lost in the hoopla around 9/11 is the fact that Florida was in the middle of a hurricane. My plane departed Phoenix almost two hours late, but the dozen or so of us going to Tampa all knew that the airport was closed for take-offs and landings. In Dallas, the other passengers were rerouted to planes, and I was scheduled on a late night flight. I arrived in Dallas around 1pm, and would fly out around 8pm. What can you do? I went to the Delta crown room for some free brewskis, then had a nice lunch/dinner, then headed back to the crown room. I worked on e-mails and my web page and waited. Around 7, I headed to the gate and the flight was delayed, slowly, but surely. First to 7:30, then 8:00, then 8:30. We had a plane, and plenty of passengers, and the Tampa airport had been opened since around 4pm, but we had no pilots. Finally, around 9:30, they announced the flight was cancelled, and that we would fly out in the morning.

Like any seasoned traveller, I ran (pulling my rolley-bag) to the crown room, and got a ticket on a flight leaving almost immediately for Orlando. "Run to the gate" I was told. Now, I don't know if you know how DFW is laid out, but each terminal is like a letter "U" and I had been waiting for Tampa at a gate right in the middle. There are two crown rooms, I headed to the one down by gate 5, but (of course) the Orlando flight was out of Gate 30, three gates down from the 'other' crown room. Oh well.

I ran, shuffled, huffed and puffed (with my rolley) the entire distance back to my Tampa gate, then all the way down to the Orlando flight. On the way, I caught up with several other Tampa passengers doing the same. "Hurry", I told them, "the flight is about to depart" and we all ran, until we found another guy who told us, "Don't bother, its delayed". And it was, so we had lots of time to wait in line to get ticketed. My cellphone had run out of power (imagine that!) but Lyn got me a one-way rental in Orlando back to Tampa. My friend from PHX needed a lift back to the TPA, so I said we would share the ride and keep each other awake. We offered a lift to everybody around us, but there were no other takers.

He was a seasoned traveller, like me, working for a competing software company. What a great guy! He was from Wisconsin, and his wife was a lawyer, etc, etc. We got the car and got on our way, and with a couple open ended questions filled the hour and a half from MCO to TPA. I dropped him at the parking garage and drove the last bit by myself. We exchanged cards, and he was absolutely delightful person. And that sums up my experiences since that awful day.

Yes, travel is more congested, with lots of silly rules. It is still 10 times easier than my flight to Israel three years ago (read the story). But I just arrive a little earlier and carry a little extra patience, and I will tell you, I have found people to be more enjoyable then ever before. Our president said it would be a call for America to rise up, and that has been my experience. There is so much more "please" and "thank-you" and "you go first" and "let me  help you with that". I have seen a rise of the American spirit that I remember, not the one from the age of greed. Yes, when I arrive an hour and a half before departure, it is the case that half the time I have an hour to kill and half the time I have to run to my gate, but I have always had a simple adage about that. If you don't want to live with travel hassles, don't travel. Just remember, before you go to the airport, pack a little extra patience and leave those nail clippers at home. I have, and everything has turned out for the best.

Now, if only business will pick up.

Dave


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