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My Trip to Milan / Israel / Athens
Travelogue November 1998

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Chapter Six

Isreal off the job

On the first night, we three gentlemen had a simple meal at the hotel snack bar and retired early. I was exhausted from the late night, early morning, and tough day. On the second night, Shrikant and I walked into Acco for dinner at an Arab cafe. He had been on site since the previous week and had taken a taxi ride for a 'grand tour' before I arrived. He paid attention to details, and could restate many facts about the city, its four (not two) mosques, the fortress walls built by Napoleon against the British, the Lebanon boarder, the seven day war, the scud missile attack, life for Israeli Arabs, etc, etc. Of course we also talked about his life in India, and I told him about Florida, growing up in Detroit, different clients and places I had been. We found a restaurant and ate outside, on plastic patio furniture. We ate hummus (his plain, mine with lamb meat) in pita bread. He presented me with a Rupee note when I gushed about my Lira and Shekels (and he would not take a one-dollar bill in return). Passing conversation revealed that he was the husband in an 'arranged marriage' and that it was working out quite alright thank you. It came up when he referred to the marriage of one of his countrymen as a 'love marriage'. When I asked what was the opposite (like, for instance, an "American Marriage"?), he told his story of how he and his soon-to-be wife were introduced and eventually married. I tried to explain about the 'senior prom' in High School and he smiled to hear the story. We talked about world travel, and the 20 different languages spoken in India. We talked about his career as a college professor, a consultant, and now as the owner of his own consulting firm. He told his story of the gulf war (Desert Storm) as he was in Abu Dhabi during that period and afterward. He was a delightful storyteller with a fascinating life, and we sat under a canopy as the moonlight reflected on the waves of the Mediterranean sea on a hundreds year old embankment in a city that was standing in Biblical times.

On the third night, Dora surprised me and offered to take me to Haifa. She lived there and would arrange taking me there, but I would have to return to the hotel via a taxicab (excellent!) She arranged for her husband to pick up her daughter at day-care, and for a fellow worker to give us a lift (to avoid waiting for the hourly bus service from the plant to the city). We chatted in the car with the project leader for the financial portion of their project, a kindly woman with a friendly disposition. Once at Dora's car, we drove to the top of "Mount Carmel" for the beautiful view of the Haifa harbor. In December, the weather was very pleasant, and again, the moon twinkled above and the city lights matched it below. And, yes, this is the same Mount Carmel with the stories in the old testament and the source of the name for the religious order known as the "Carmelite Sisters".

The "Don Promenade" hotel stands on one of the highest points in the city. From its promenade, we walked and looked at the lights while she told me about growing up in Haifa, her 3 years as a child in America (New Jersey and Chicago), how expensive cars and gas and housing is in Israel. She helped me find an ATM (running out of shekels) and made sure I had a famous roll-up sandwich, somewhere between a Greek gyro and a pita roll-up. We walked to the Bahai gardens, and she told me about the Bahai religion and the Bahai people that owned this land and planted these gardens (world-famous for beauty, but lost in the December darkness that night). She invited me home to meet her husband and have coffee but it was too late, the class had run long (six and a half) and there were still more teaching for me tomorrow. She dropped me at the taxi stand, and I made sure the cabbie spoke English. We drove back to Acco (20 minutes) and I sat in front and asked a million questions. I heard about a different side of Haifa, about the scud missiles and the US Navy ships in port (drove by the U.S.O.). I double checked about my 8am Friday flight to Athens: Did I really need to be up at 3am and leave Acco at 4am? (Yes, 2 hrs to the airport 2 hrs to clear Israeli exit procedure). The cabbie's idea was to go to Tel Aviv Thursday night. But I would still need to get up at 5am? Oh, no! You go to Tel Aviv and stay up all night in the 'clubs' was his idea. Then no problem to get to your plane in the morning. Oh.

Yes, by the way, this is the same "mount Carmel" from the bible, as are many things that appear on a map of Israel. This is the mount made famous by the monks and the Carmelite sisters. The appearance of the Bahai followers caused quite a stir in the last few years. The Bahai's, as I understand it, follow an offshoot of the muslim religion. The followers seem quite wealthy, and the parcels they own around Haifa would be considered the 'choicest' in any modern city. The little reading I have done on this subject raised more questions than it answered.

The third morning, I arose early, to walk the few blocks toward Acco and take some morning pictures. I took pictures of the hotel, the run down business area (and discotheque nearby), a nearby cemetery. Everything seemed ancient (it was) and exotic (it was to me). I snapped a nice picture of the distant Acco city with its two mosques, and made it all the way downtown and back before it was time to leave for work. These were, of course, my only daylight pictures in or around Acco.

The last night was simple, since I would need to be up at 3:30am. Again, we 3 gentlemen ate simple sandwiches in the country club snack bar area of the hotel 'Hof Hatmarim'. Tonight I brought my camera and took a couple of pictures. We asked Derek about South Africa and learned that he proposed to his finance in the 'preserves' area, actual African wilderness. They loved to hike there, he had visited the area often since his childhood, and he had decided that, when the day came for him to propose marriage, that would be the only place to perform such an important act. Of course she said yes.

Shrikant talked more about Israel and committed that on his next trip he would bring his international drivers license and get his own car. I had reached the same conclusion about myself. The road signs are always in English (second) and a good map is very very necessary, the Israeli drivers are particularly aggressive, but getting your own car was the conclusion that both Shrikant and I independently reached. Thursday night starts the week-end in Israel, so Derek and Shrikant were planning some week-end visits to nearby areas. This was another uneasy period between an Iraqi UN showdown and another US cruise missile barrage. Also, the television news was playing (again and again and again) footage of a group of angry Arabs beating on 2 Israeli motorists. That particular footage got a lot of play on CNN, so world-wide awareness. Of course, like I had been told, the sun still rose, the scenery was beautiful, the hummus was delicious, and life went on in Israel. We said good-night and good-bye and I retired dreading 3:30am.

3:30 arrived early, actually so did 3:45. I had gone to sleep without packing, saying I would do it in the morning then in the morning saying I must have done it the night before. At 3:45 I rose and quickly showered, stuffed my "Greek clothes" into my backpack, and put my work stuff (books, overheads) into the bottom of my suitcase. Class was over, my day in Athens was ahead of me. Everyone at home was fine, and I was just stuffing things into my 3 bags (suitcase, roll-on, and backpack) to meet the cabbie at 4am. The phone rang at 4. Yes, I said, I was almost ready. I promised, and appeared at 4:15. My cabbie was a large, and amiable man, with a quick smile and his first words were "I have been here since 4am at your request". Yes, thank-you, I am running late. But as quickly as that line of conversation started, it ended, the rest of the trip was delightful.

He had received the message about my wanting a drive that "spoke English", it seemed, since he started in immediately about anything and everything. I was delighted. We were in a large tourist van, like the airport shuttle busses, that seated 15 people. Just the driver and me. We spoke about his life, and the people he met. He was going to be taking a group of German tourists to Masada that morning, after returning from dropping me at the airport. I asked about the factory that I had been driving by all week, decorated in large geometric shapes of primary colors. I had guessed it to be a factory for making toys for young children. Close, he said, it was plainly marked in Hebrew that it was a paint factory. Oh.

He had driven a city bus in Haifa for seven years prior to driving the taxi. His "brudder" had started a taxi business but he would not give up his bus driver job (he had only luke-warm feelings about his "brudder"). Then one day his "brudder" talked to his "fadder" about the need for him to join the taxi company and the rest was history. We laughed and I told him a little about my "brudder" and "fadder" and we agreed it was a small world after all. His brother called him on the cell phone 3 different times in the 90 minutes it took to drive from my hotel to Tel Aviv (plus twice more on the radio). The taxi company has 2 vehicles, the 15 passenger van and a regular sized yellow taxi car. He wanted to drive the taxi, but he had to drive the van. "My brudder drive da taxi-car, him a MANAGER" he said in sing-song while rolling his eyes and both of us laughed out loud.

I explained how my family lived in 3 different cities, 2000 kilometers apart. His eyes were wide, his father, his despised brother and he lived in separate homes on the same hillside in Haifa, each 1 kilometer from the other, worked at the same job and spoke dozens of times per day. Each Friday we have the "shabbot" (evening meal with religious significance) together; with wives and children in attendance too. I explained how we tried to see each other once a year, when possible, but I had already learned that discussions of "Christmas" didn't register to the typical Israeli.

As we drove to Tel Aviv, I was told about each city, the type of people, commerce, outlooks each had. He read for me every sign on every business we drove by. I asked about each exit sign, and the obscure references. They were not names (ex:"Marsyck-Simpson") but were the names of kibbutz communities. Oh. I had guessed it was directions to meet somebody at their house, and important enough to get a road sign. Each kibbutz had a purpose, as they were really a cross between a subdivision and a commune. Everybody had their own homes (unlike the Californian 60's) but they were all partners in a common business. I tried to understand the "west bank settlements" and other details, but figured to learn about all those stories on my next Israel trip.

"This kibbutz is for, ummm, cows", he said. I filled in that they made and sold milk and beef (he nodded). "This one for chickens" (I nodded). Later, "This one is for fixing cars", raising my one eyebrow and starting to get a better feel for life in suburban Israel. "This kibbutz is for growing flowers and plants", he explained. But then we drove by a white stucco community, 12 or 15 buildings all look-alike and well lit at darkest 5am, "This is where Ultra-orthodox live". I foisted 10 minutes of questions on him, but could never get the nuance of how things worked.

"Could I live there?" "Do you get invited to move there?" "What does their kibbutz make?" "Who built it?" "Do you have a house payment if you live there?" etc, etc. Each answer got longer and longer, filled in with hems and haws, and without answering the question, so I gave up. I asked about schools (each kibbutz has a state run school) and police and fire departments (nearby cities provide services, except in the most distance regions).

"This one is for Arabs", he said, and I suddenly and for the first time noticed that my Israeli cab driver had an exact physical resemblance to the hundreds of Arab (and Greek) men I had met or seen in my hometown in Detroit. Of course! Anybody living in this region, from Greece to Egypt, would trace to common an ancestors and therefore have similar general physical characteristics. I was quiet to ponder that the languages, the cultures, all the hatred and wars, all trace to social institutions not genetics.

A nice discussion followed on Acco and its Arab history and mosques. Yes, Arab children learn Arabic and Hebrew (and English, too) but Jewish children learn Hebrew and English but do not learn Arabic. As he explained this to me, he suddenly paused (as if learning something for the first time). He said "Hmmm...", and thought for a minute.

We arrived at the airport, first passing thru an honest-to-goodness roadblock with armed soldiers (each with his Uzi) and a couple of army jeeps making the universal hand symbol for halt or be shot. This on the exit ramp between the freeway and the airport and we proceeded after a sentence or two in unintelligible Hebrew. (I smiled and nodded to the nice soldier).

The sky was starting to lighten as I walked around Ben Gurion international for the second time in 4 days. Got another snack, headed to get my boarding pass and the interrogation started in again. This time I was less patient, still smiled and was courteous but this time I understood the ritual (and I had nothing to hide). I answered their questions, gave them a business card and talked about my office and duties. Once again I produced classroom material and explained a randomly selected page or two here or there. This time I was asked, along with 'did anybody give you anything', did I meet anybody new that I would consider a 'new friend', somebody I would write to or call when I returned to the United States. An interesting question, with horrific overtones, but I simply answered honestly that I had made business contacts and would not be writing personal correspondence and, no, I did not receive any wrapped packages from any new-found "friends" in Israel.

Time enough to phone home, and buy a small snack at horrific airport prices. After 5 different airport helpers had greeted me with "Bokah Tov" (good morning), the sixth said a simple "good morning", instead. I asked, "Do I look THAT American?" and she smiled (with small dimples), squinted her eyes, nodded 3 little nods, and stamped my exit pass. Then they called the boarding, down the stairs, onto the bus, out onto the tarmac, out of the bus, up the stairs and on my way to Greece.

 

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Originally Written March 1999
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